Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” — Ephesians 4:32 (ESV)
This verse is a gentle command wrapped in grace. It reminds us that forgiveness isn’t just a virtue—it’s a reflection of Christ’s love. To be tenderhearted is to allow compassion to soften the edges of our pain. Forgiveness doesn’t erase the past, but it releases its grip. When we forgive, we echo the mercy we’ve received, and in doing so, we become vessels of peace.
It is a Christian act to “forgive” and it is a Divine connection to the LORD and all He represents. When we take on the strength – provided to us by Christ – we are following His doctrine and His example. We are able to assume and assimilate into a living witness of what Christ represents and shine His light to others.
We will NEVER be anything “in the near vicinity of Who He is” – but we try and give thanks to Him for affording us the opportunity in His mercy, and redemption of our souls – to do so.
Forgive others – as you forgave us, a process that isn’t too easily accomplished at times. However, it is required of us as Christians to do so. Christ commanded it.
“LORD, You forgave me when I least deserved it. Teach me to forgive with that same mercy— not because it’s easy, but because it’s holy. Let my heart be tender, not bitter. Let my words be gentle, not sharp. Let my spirit reflect Your grace, even when the wound still aches. I choose to forgive, because You forgave me first. In Jesus name, Amen.”
